MEETING OUR CHILDREN’S EMOTIONAL NEEDS … MEETING THESE SAME CHILDHOOD NEEDS AS AN ADULT …

Jo Hickman| May 27, 2023

Babies, children and teens have fundamental needs …
When these needs are not met by their parents or carers
the child does not know how to blame the adult …

So they blame themself instead .

THESE 5 NEEDS, WHEN MET, LEAD TO AN EMPOWERED LIFE IN ADULTHOOD…

1# The need to FEEL SIGNIFICANT
2# The need to FEEL LOVED
3# The need to FEEL I MATTER
4# The need to FEEL CELEBRATED
5# The need to FEEL MY PARENTS ARE PROUD OF ME

WHEN THESE NEEDS ARE NOT MET, TWO THINGS CAN HAPPEN …

😞The child believes their needs will

NEVER BE MET

OR

😞They give up on ever having their needs met …
and these feelings formed in childhood can last a lifetime!!!
😢If no one LISTENS to me or NOTICES me, I must be INSIGNIFICANT – so I don’t aim high
😢If no one shows they LOVE me I must be UNLOVABLE – so I hold myself back in UNWORTHINESS
😢If no one looks out for me I must NOT MATTER and I am NOT SAFE – so I won’t take risks
😢If no one celebrates me I must be a LOSER – so I won’t even try

😢If no one shows they are proud of me then I CAN’T HAVE ANYTHING TO OFFER THE WORLD – so I will hold back

If you are reading this as an adult and seeing these traits in yourself

OR

Reading this as an adult and seeing these traits in your child or teen

Know that you are not alone …

It is never too late to make the change you desire …

As a Rapid Transformational Therapist I can guide you to living the life you or your child deserve

Simply reach out with the DM – YES

PLEASE – Let’s Chat

Love and Blessings
Jo xx
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